Hi friends,
Here goes the second one...

Personality Plus by Florence Littauer
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An amazing book..that reveals "personality profile" self-test and Littauer's valuable guidance &  helps readers better understand themselves and others..

A must read for everyone who wants to be loved and accepted..by others..

The book talks about the different Personality Types..

• The Perfect Melancholy: Analytical, talented, creative, idealistic, and perfectionistic, but also can be negative, moody, critical, and revengeful.
• The Peaceful Phlegmatic: Calm, dependable, practical, patient, quiet and witty, but on the down side, can be pessimistic, fearful, and unmotivated.
• The Powerful Choleric: Decisive, optimistic, confident, organized, and motivational but, on the down side, can be very cruel, domineering, unemotional, proud and inconsiderate.
• The Popular Sanguine: Cheerful, curious, sincere, fun, friendly, compassionate, warm and enthusiastic, but can also be undependable, restless, fearful and undisciplined. (We can sincerely start a project with a bang, but let it fizzle out and die.)

Hi friends,
I would share some of the info about my favourite books in the coming weeks..
Starting today..here goes the first one..
Its a fantastic book by one of my hot favourite authors.
I would be more than willing to lend the books to those who are interested in reading ..
Just shoot me a mail..

You Can't Steal Second With Your Foot on First
by Burk Hedges
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Choosing to Become Independent in a Job-Dependent World !!

Let me be frank and straighforward ..This book was written back in 1996 . if you agree that JOB is a temporary solution to a PERMANENT problem...read on...else you would be wasting your time on my Blog....
A great book to learn why Jobs = slavery..JOB ..
Taking charge of your business = Freedom and that it's your choice as to which direction you go...
In case you have any insecure feeling about leaving the world of job(s) they will all disappear after reading this book.

The book beautifully shows the perils of continuing to work for others!!
 I loved the comparison of jobism and communism.
If you need a boost to take control of your life... this is it!

You will be able to find out the MYTH that surrounds the job industry..
Its the age where PINK slips are issued in a jiffy...
Where is the JOB SECURITY??
Are we all aware of it..If yes..are we doing something about it??

Or just waiting for the WORST TO HAPPEN first!!!

Grab the book...or let me know if u want me to lend it to you..Just amazing stuff!

Cheers
Sudhir Chauhan
sudhirchauhan@gmail.com

Hi Friends, I am back after a brief pause...
Just came across this wonderful piece of poetry..( once again..) by one Mr Karan D..in one of my fwded mail..
could nt resist sharing with everyone..

Thanks to everyone who has flooded my mailbox with their mails of appreciation for my posts..
u can always reach me at my id given below..
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INNER STRENGTH

I'm running from this problem,
Distancing myself from its scare,
The power to solve, to repair myself - its there,
But seems like all I'm doing -
Is turning away, while it continues to stare...
I need to resist, to keep up the fight,
This is not a problem - that one can solve overnight,
I will try and try again, till this devil does die,
Only then can I face my conscience, and rid myself of this plight.

One needs to struggle, one needs to cry,
Sufferings and pain - they're opportunities that come by -
To appreciate the joy and energy of life,
If there was no sadness, then how could joy be defined?
For you to improve - to get better at anything you want,
You need to have courage, and do what you think you can't,
I have the inner strength - it is sealed inside,
It gives off an aura - of unprecedented might,
I'm even given the key, what else can god provide?
Now it's up to me, this battle is only mine...
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For anyone who has trouble facing problems. We've all got our troubles, and we all know that running is not an option. So face them, and give them a good hard PUNCH!

Seize the day!
Sudhir Chauhan
sudhirchauhan@gmail.com

Having a dream: Goals give focus and can be incredibly motivating. Successful people don't shy away from dreaming and working on something 'seemingly impossible'.

A common habit of successful people is the continuous desire to expand their knowledge - from books and, people they meet...

Accepting changes, and being flexible to them is necessary for success.
Accepting changes means... not giving up your responsibility and never blaming others for current circumstances.
It means to look at change as an opportunity to learn and improve our skills.

Finally remember..what I said earlier in my Blog..
there are no LOSERS only QUITTERS..
come what may..NEVER QUIT in life..
Get associated with the POSITIVE MINDED people..
if ur friends are the ones who LAUGH at ur Dreams..then u well know..
ITS TIME TO CHANGE..

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." - Thomas Alva Edison

Seize the day!!

Cheers
Sudhir Chauhan
http://www.geocities.com/iamsabir

Good Morning friends..
Some of my favourite success quotes collected over a period of time..

The most expensive advice is the FREE advice that you receive from your FINANCIALLY STRUGGLING friends and relatives..
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" For a man who's able to recognize his own shortcomings is a man who can change his own destiny."
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" Potential: the word that may be used to describe where you could be, who you could have been, and goals you could have achieved. So why not just make it happen?"
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Things don't get better by worrying about them!
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" Excuses are tools of the incompetent; they build monuments of nothingness."
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" The history of the world is the history of a few people who had faith in themselves."
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You are the best..You can create a HISTORY..! Nothing can stop you..


Seize the day!!


Cheers,
Sudhir Chauhan
http://www.geocities.com/iamsabir

Source: Internet

Hi Friends,
This is the first time..that I m posting something..different from that I have been posting so far..
I like the humour..so thought of sharing with all..
No offences meant for anyone :)

Enjoy! its just like a fwded email ;)

DONT QUIT

Don't quit when the tide is lowest,
For it's just about to turn;
Don't Quit over doubts and questions,
For there's something you may learn.
Don't quit when the night is darkest,
For it's just a while 'til dawn;
Don't quit when you've run the farthest,
For the race is almost won.
Don't quit when the hill is steepest,
For your goal is almost nigh;
Don't quit, for you're not a failure
Until you fail to try.

Always remember...there are NO failures...ONLY QUITTERS!!!!

Cheers
Sudhir Chauhan
http://www.geocities.com/iamsabir
( from unknown author)

Hi pals ,
Here are some tips..I found useful..so thought of sharing with you all too..

Leadership Consulting Tips

1. Listen with an empty cup---if your mental cup isn’t empty you can’t listen and learn.

2. Understand most conversation is about the other person---not you.

3. Set aside your opinion while listening to others---it allows you to “try on” what’s being said.

4. Joining people in their conversation, not yours, allows you to open up your power of selflessness.

5. View others as who they could be—not who they have been.

6. Understand what the “home runs” in your life are.

7. Define who you are—not what you do.

8. Look at complaints as a commitment to change the circumstances.

9. A promise is your word---once you promise something, you can’t take it back, unless that other person allows you to.

10. Don’t issue commitments as intentions—most people understand commitments as promises and will hold you accountable.

Personal Presence Tips

1. Look people in the eyes when having a conversation with them.

2. How you walk into a room gives your audience their first impression of you.

3. Listen to your voice tone—is it full of energy and passion or full of monotones and void of excitement?

4. When telling an audience you are happy about something, make sure you’ve told your face that also!

5. Leaning forward into a conversation portrays your focus on that person and conversation.

6. Stride with purpose—don’t purposefully stride.

7. Give a warm firm handshake, not a limp or hand breaking one.

8. Don’t allow your hands to distract your audience from your message. Your hands may be telling another story than your spoken word.

9. Wear clothes you feel good in and receive energy from.

10. Smile!

Cheers
Sudhir Chauhan
http://www.geocities.com/iamsabir

Hey Friends,
Check this out and figure out..Can you do the DIFFICULT things mentioned here??
Believe me ...if you start followin it, your life will change 180 degrees ( for good :) )
enjoy reading..
its from a fwded mail..

EASY	DIFFICULT
Easy is to judge the mistakes of others	Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes
Easy is to talk without thinking	Difficult is to refrain the tongue
Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.	Difficult is to heal the wound...
Easy is to forgive others	Difficult is to ask for forgiveness
Easy is to set rules.	Difficult is to follow them..
Easy is to dream every night.	Difficult is to fight for a dream...
Easy is to show victory.	Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...
Easy is to admire a full moon.	Difficult to see the other side...
Easy is to stumble with a stone.	Difficult